Look at Garry Kasparov. After he loses, invariably he wins the next game. He just kills the next guy. That's something that we have to learn to be able to do.
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[Event "rated untimed match"] [Site "?"] [Date "????.??.??"] [Round "?"] [White "Unknown"] [Black "Unknown088"] [Result "1-0"] [Annotator "David Hayes"] [BlackElo "0"] [FEN "4k3/8/p1p2p2/p3p1p1/1PP1P1P1/1K6/5P2/8 w - - 0 1"] [SetUp "1"] [TimeControl "0"] [WhiteElo "0"] 1. Ka4 ( 1. bxa5 c5 { Draw. Neither side can make progress. } ) 1... axb4 2. Kxb4 Kd7 3. Ka5 Kd6 4. Kb6 a5 5. c5+ Kd7 6. Kxa5 Kc7 7. Ka6 Kc8 8. Kb6 Kd7 9. Kb7 Ke6 10. Kxc6 { White wins with a large material advantage. } 1-0